Letting Go of Evaluation

Based on my "My Life Vision" worksheet I feel that it would be very hard for me to just do an assessment-based and only for the purpose of improving. I say that because depending on the type of situation it may be. If the people around me chose to help me improve instead of judging me, then I'll probably see things a little differently. In order for me to want to help myself improve and not bring myself down, I would have to love myself first before anything else. And to try and put the things that happen to me in the past and just move forward with my life so that it wont affect me as a person in the future.

Learning and then Moving On

This exercise was for me to analyze an experience, issue, or relationship that I previously went through. The problem that came from this experience was me not trusting people who I thought were close to me any more. I was hurt, confused, annoyed and the situation was painful and ridiculous. My three strengths that I had going this problem was me being very strong minded, knowing how to deal with big situations and i am a very mature young lady. The reason why I never addressed the problem was because I don't want to hurt no ones feeling and it might become a bigger problem. The only person I know that can help me through this situation is God. As of this point I don't know how I would handle it. If I don't address it any time soon I might grow to become a bitter woman, this problem shows how I come off about certain situations and how I can shut down completely. This problem taught me how to try to deal wit certain situations the best way you can. no matter how big they are.